Caution: Always consult a sexologist for psychologically related sexual problems and a Urologist/OBG for respective male/female related physiological problems. Please refer to any standard 'good' textbook on Physiology and Anatomy for further reading. For online resources, I strongly recommend http://www.nih.gov/ and http://www.karolinska.se/. These websites contain vast information. Those who are interested in knowing little bit about medicine, will be greatly benefitted. I also recommend the site http://www.medindia.net/ for easy understanding of many disorders & diseases.
This article is for those who are in conjugal relationship to have a better physical & mental understanding with the spouse. Also, this is for people who are 'knowledge' curious and have some 'logical & rational' thinking. This article is not an advice to go behind any 'spiritual' guru. Neither is it for people who are in 'live-in' relationship as sex can become more complicated and personally I don't believe in it due to the consequences of 'unprotected & not-so-honest' sex from the standpoint of Sexually Transmitted Diseases(STDs). This article is mainly to educate and create an awareness in people about sex from the standpoint of health issues. Sex is still considered as taboo in many societies and also not many people, especially parents talk openly about it in a healthy context.
Appreciation for anything in life comes only after we understand about it. So, sex is no exception. When people have healthy understanding of the subject, there will be less crimes associated with sex, inequality between men & women, poverty, population growth and thereby leading to peace among different nations around the world. A better informed society is always a peaceful society.
Sex is a double edged sword. If a person doesn't play it safe, one can sabotage oneself. A woman needs to have a better understanding of man's body parts and vice versa alongwith understanding of their own body parts. True happiness always results only when the act is done with an 'unconditional' attitude without being attached to the result. With the exception of sex, anything in excess should be shared with those who don't have. If one shares sex too, one will only spread disease and if uncontrolled, it can lead to an epidemic/pandemic problem. Only one thing in the world, even when shared, never decreases in either quality or quantity. It is called 'knowledge'. All other material things always decrease in quantity.
I'm going to start first with Male body parts and then address Female body. With the power of modern Medicine and changes in one's lifestyle, we can control and possibly even reverse some of the 'not so' life threatening illnesses like Type I & II Diabetes, Thyroid disease, Arthritis, Blood Pressure. I will classify the articles on these topics, which affect both sexes, under a separate category. Check my blog for these topics in couple of weeks.
Most men don't know about their own body especially reproductive organs. They may not even know where exactly prostate is located or what is vas deferens. A woman should know about male body parts if she loves her man and it is true for a man too. Wrt sex, a man should know what the body parts are, where they are located and how they function, play a role in and can affect his sexual life either physiologically or psychologically.
Most men don't know about their own body especially reproductive organs. They may not even know where exactly prostate is located or what is vas deferens. A woman should know about male body parts if she loves her man and it is true for a man too. Wrt sex, a man should know what the body parts are, where they are located and how they function, play a role in and can affect his sexual life either physiologically or psychologically.
When a man is more informed, he can be at ease with his own body and also talk more comfortably with his partner. The organs outside are penis, scrotum and inside are testicles, bladder, kidneys, prostate, urethra, vas deferens, epididymis and seminal vesicles. Among these, epididymis, vas deferens and seminal vesicles are accessories. Erection, intercourse, orgasm, and ejaculation can be due to physiological or psychological origin. Erectile Dysfunction(ED) is mainly attributed to psychological origin. The actual male reproductive organs are penis, testicles, prostate and the seminal vescicles. We will see these body parts one by one in the next article.
4 comments:
Hey buddy, long time.!!Self too hadnt checked your blog last one month. Just thought of your blog now, and what a pleasant surprise..!
OK,like your approach.V V informative. Wld like to comment on the topic aft your forthcoming articles, but yes, i agree, appreciation isnt possible unless we understand, & also true happiness results only with unconditional attitude.You also say 'With the exception of sex, anything in excess should be shared with those who don't have.' OK, but think, if someone is deprived of love,he/she will never appreciate it when any one shares this, & will constantly doubt; so a bit complicated situation, isnt it? :-)
Waiting for the nxt part,
You still want to be anonymous? Shall i take a wild guess at your anonymity?
Yes, if someone is deprived of love, you show compassion/love as a friend(i didn't say as a partner and one has to make it very clear about the feelings so that there is no false hopes!). If that person doesn't appreciate it, you have to slowly recede from that person. But its a personal choice, making decisions depend on other factors. Suppose the couple have kids, then they need to take healthy decisions that doesn't affect the kid even though the couple have no good understanding. They have to make sure, no matter what differences they may have, they should never fight in front of the kids.
Every relationship, be it friendship, parent-kid,husband-wife, teacher-student, should be beneficial to both sides. Otherwise it has to break, it will definitely break. Its just a matter of time.
Happiness results only with thinking. I can not answer for others. I'm blunt and i make it very clear about my views so that if the other person doesn't want to continue the friendship, it is fine with me.
Are you speaking from personal experience or by observing somebody's experience? People talk at wrong times; when they need to talk to clear off misunderstandings, they keep quiet. There is no end to learning process.
My sincere appologies, dear friend, for wanting to continue with my anonymity. Wild guess? Well,at your own risk & remember, you could be wrong.
Totally agree with you.. its all matter of time..!! yes, that's our weakness.. speaking when we need to be silent & being silent when things need clarification. You are brave i would say, not being much bothered when someone,for no fault of yours, chooses to break up.
I was just poking at you:-) I'm cool and don't take it too personally. The problem comes only when one tries to hold the person. One can not try to control somebody and be happy. I will post the next part before this evening.
Thanks for being an awesome reader:-)
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